Classical Homeopath

 

 

In today’s world, the anti-aging industry thrives on a collective fear—fear of losing youth, fear of losing desirability, fear of becoming invisible. But why? Why do we, as a society, place such a premium on looking young? And why are we seeing a dramatic increase in women, especially in their 40s and 50s, striving to look decades younger? 

Historically, aging was often seen as an achievement. Women, in particular, took pride in their wisdom, experience, and the respect that came with age. They held positions of influence in their families and communities, revered for their knowledge and guidance. However, the modern world has fostered a shift away from valuing age and wisdom, replacing it with an obsessive pursuit of youth. The question is—why? 

The Biological Roots of Our Obsession 

Recent discoveries suggest that most mammals do not live long after their reproductive years. In the animal kingdom, fertility often dictates a female’s value, and once reproduction is no longer possible, survival becomes secondary. However, humans—and perhaps a select few other species—have been given a unique gift: longevity beyond fertility. This extended lifespan is not a biological mistake; rather, it serves a deeper purpose. Women beyond menopause are free from the hormonal fluctuations dictated by the moon’s cycle and can dedicate themselves to higher pursuits—mentorship, leadership, creativity, and wisdom-sharing. 

Yet, despite this incredible advantage, society continues to pressure women into fearing the very process that grants them freedom and stability. Could it be that the deeply ingrained association between female worth and fertility still controls our subconscious? In evolutionary terms, men have historically sought partners based on fertility markers—youthful skin, thick hair, bright eyes—all signals of reproductive viability. Even though modern relationships extend far beyond reproduction, these ancient instincts still play a role in how beauty is perceived and valued. Women, in turn, have internalized this system, often tying their self-worth to their ability to attract rather than to their wisdom and presence. 

Breaking Free from the Chains of Insecurity 

It is time for a paradigm shift. If we see aging as a natural evolution rather than something to fight against, we can liberate ourselves from the cycle of insecurity that the anti-aging industry profits from. Beauty is not defined by the absence of wrinkles or gray hair but by the energy, strength, and confidence that come from within. Every age has its own grace, and the wisdom that emerges with time should be celebrated, not erased. 

Of course, appreciating beauty is not wrong. Loving style, colors, and self-care is an art form in itself. But the difference lies in intention. Are we seeking beauty for self-expression and nourishment of the soul, or are we desperately trying to meet an external standard that was never meant to serve us? If invasive and potentially harmful procedures are driven by fear rather than empowerment, they do not grant us freedom—they trap us. 

The Environmental and Ethical Cost of the Anti-Aging Industry 

 

Beyond personal consequences, excessive anti-aging interventions harm more than just individuals—they harm nature. From the production of synthetic medications to the waste generated by cosmetic procedures, this industry contributes significantly to pollution and unsustainable practices. While medical advancements are valuable and sometimes necessary, the normalization of extreme interventions, when not essential, is out of proportion. Respecting the natural process of aging is not just an act of self-love; it is an act of environmental responsibility. 

The Future: A New Narrative on Aging 

It is time to reclaim our power, not through chasing eternal youth, but by embracing the beauty of transformation. Strengthening our bodies through exercise, nourishing our souls through art and creativity, and standing firm in our wisdom—these are the keys to true radiance. The freedom that comes with aging is profound: freedom from societal expectations, freedom from hormonal fluctuations, freedom to be fully ourselves. 

 

Let us shift the conversation. Let us redefine beauty as something dynamic, something that does not fade but transforms. Aging is not a loss; it is a gift. And if we allow ourselves to see it that way, we can finally step into a future where wisdom, not insecurity, is the foundation of our self-worth. 

 

Be Happy,

Mahsa Asasi

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